Have you ever heard of the Myers Brigg personality test? If you haven’t taken the test yourself,
you’re probably at least somewhat familiar with the concept. If you’ve taken the test, you were given a
really weird group of letters like “INTJ.”
These groups identify your personality, and each comes with a specific
title. For example, I am an ISTJ,
otherwise known as the “logistician.”
Finding out your personality through Myers Briggs is quick
and fun, and reading the results can be entertaining. You are given some insights and explanations
of your personality type, and you can read several pages of interesting
information that should, to an extent, accurately describe your personality.
As an ISTJ, here were some of my results…
- I share a personality with George Washington.
- I am a 51% introvert and 49% extrovert; also known as an
“ambivert.” :)
- According to the positive character trait list, I am
responsible, strong-willed, dutiful, practical, and I create and enforce order.
- According to the negative character trait list, I am
stubborn, insensitive, always by the book, and judgmental.
There are, of course, many things in the results that my
personality does not agree with, but overall, ISTJ fits my personality the best
of all the possible results. (NOTE: I have since retaken the test and received an ESTJ result, still with very close introvert/extrovert percentages.;)
Sound fun? It is! However, I’ve noticed a major drawback: some
people take it to an extreme. I know
people--even Christians--who are so “into” the whole Myers Brigg thing that they find their
identity in it. I’m not
joking.
Myers Brigg personality or no, we often identify ourselves
and others as introverts or extroverts.
These words can say a lot about a person. We recognize that introverts tend to struggle
more socially and need alone time to recharge, while extroverts are energized
by being around others. Now, there’s
nothing wrong with identifying as either an introvert or an extrovert, but
problems arise when we use that identity for reasoning.
I’ve seen people be anti-social, standoffish, offensive, and
unreasonable, all in the name of their personality. “I’m an introvert; I can’t just walk up to
people and say hi,” someone might argue.
People will use their identification as an introvert or extrovert to
excuse their behavior. Some people will
even argue for another’s case by referencing that person’s personality.
Are there differences between introverts and extroverts? For sure!
Of course, we must give grace to others while recognizing the unique
personality quirks God has gifted them with.
Wouldn’t it be an awful world with only one or the other? We have such a creative God, to give us
diversity in personality!
My point is, many people use their personality as an excuse
to hide behind. However, let me ask you
this: did God write a separate Bible for introverts and extroverts? Do some sections of Scripture only apply to
introverts, while others only apply to extroverts? No!
“All
Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God
may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.” – 2 Timothy
3:16-17, KJV.
Every bit of Scripture is profitable for every life. While the specifics of that application will
look different for different people, every principle remains the same and is
relevant to our lives.
The more I think about and ponder life, the more I realize
how much of a priority relationships should be. This is something that has been weighing on my
heart for a while now, and I am very passionate about it. Peoples’ souls are the only thing on this
earth with eternal value, aside from the absolutely true, unchanging Word of
God. This is why I have such a hard time
when people make excuses for being rude, unfriendly, and unwilling to reach out.
“Not
forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but
exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.” – Hebrews
10:25, KJV.
“As every
man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good
stewards of the manifold grace of God.” – 1 Peter 4:10, KJV.
“And the
Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward another, and toward all
men, even as we do toward you:” – 1 Thessalonians 3:12, KJV.
“For you
were called to freedom, brothers. Only
do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve
one another.” – Galatians 5:13, ESV.
No matter your personality, I firmly believe that we are all
called to have community with other believers and share the love of Christ with
each person we come into contact with.
No, you don’t have to be best friends with every person on the planet,
but if you see a lonely girl sitting by herself and you don’t have a legitimate reason, you should be willing
to go up to her.
Ha! Easier said than done, Grace. You don’t know me! I’m the bottom of the introverted barrel, some might
argue.
But I’m
such an extrovert – I can’t leave my group to go talk to her! I need to be around lots of people, others may
say.
Introvert
or extrovert, I believe that God requires the same amount of effort out of
you that He requires of all His children: 100%.
From INFPs to ESTJs, we are commissioned by Christ to be His
hands and feet to the world. This will
look different for different people, but the command remains the same. The great commission is for EVERY follower of
Jesus Christ. You should always be
willing for God to use you in whatever way He sees fit, even if it is
challenging. Uncomfortable? Maybe.
Awkward? At times. Difficult?
You bet. But we’re called, and we
must obey.
So please, friend, evaluate your life. Are you using your personality as a cop-out,
or are you serving Christ and others, no matter what the cost?
And the next time you see the lonely girl sitting by herself, would you push aside your excuses and personal comfort and willingly reach out?
I’d love to hear below!
What is
your personality type?
What are
some of the struggles of your personality, and how can you work to overcome
those?
In what
ways are you hesitant when it comes to investing in people, and how can you
push yourself out of your comfort zone to reach out to others?
*repost from 9/21/19
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